Tag Archive - Advice

Show 71 – Home Alone (With Children)

8 March 2010 by James, No Comments
Show 71 – Home Alone (With Children)

Jenn the Nerd shares her tips for surviving a week without a husband at home to help with the nuggets.
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Show 70 – About College

2 March 2010 by James, No Comments
Show 70 – About College

The Geek and Nerd discuss issues related to attending college for the first time.

Show 63 – Random Questions

12 January 2010 by James, No Comments
Show 63 – Random Questions

Jenn and James ask one another 5 random questions and 3 Nerd or Geek related questions. Hilarity ensues.

Helping Your Wife Through A Bad Day

10 January 2010 by James, No Comments
Helping Your Wife Through A Bad Day

Have you ever been in a situation where your wife is having a bad day and everything you try to do to help doesn’t help at all? I think every husband who cares about the wellbeing of his wife has.
I’ve found that when my wife is having a bad day it’s typically because of one [...]

Being Unequally Yoked Stinks!

16 September 2009 by James, 2 Comments
Being Unequally Yoked Stinks!

Today I got an email requesting some information on how to find happiness in a marriage where one spouse is Christian and the other is not.

Three Steps To Take Before Getting Angry At A Comment

9 September 2009 by James, No Comments
Three Steps To Take Before Getting Angry At A Comment

How many times do arguments in a relationship start with a misunderstanding… um… every stinking time perhaps? Something like that. Here are a few hoops you can jump through before dragging yourself and your mate into a three hour shout-fest over nearly nothing.
1. Ask Them To Repeat And Clarify Their Comment
Before you get all angry [...]

5 Simple Ways To Make Your Kids Feel Special

2 September 2009 by James, No Comments
5 Simple Ways To Make Your Kids Feel Special

5. Draw them a picture
Think of all the times they’ve drawn pictures for you. It’s how they show you they love you. Drawing you and them standing hand-in-hand with your house in the background… maybe put the dog in there. It’s a great way to let your youngun know how you feel about them. If [...]

Expected & Rewardable Behavior: When to reward a child’s good behavior and when not to.

31 August 2009 by James, No Comments
Expected & Rewardable Behavior: When to reward a child’s good behavior and when not to.

Natural Rewards & Consequences
Children, at their core, are simple creatures. They’re not so different from us. Behavior that has benefits to them is repeated. Behavior that has negative consequences are not. Two simple categories right? Yes… but they both apply in two ways. Let me break it down like this:

Good behaviors that have naturally occurring [...]

What Is Proper Discipline?

12 August 2009 by James, No Comments
What Is Proper Discipline?

Discipline used to be a dirty word to me. It still has a sting to it. I had a hardcore ex-military step-father who loved to throw it around while he rampaged around the house demanding perfect order. His demands on us changed moment by moment based on his moods. A good mood meant we could [...]

Why Parents Don’t Discipline

11 August 2009 by James, No Comments
Why Parents Don’t Discipline

It only takes one trip to Walmart to realize something… folks don’t discipline their children very well anymore. You can hardly find a child you’d want to spend any amount of time around while strolling through the isles. Restaurants are even worse. Kids shouting out, squirming, crying or complaining. It’s not just the young ones [...]